Hello. Suddenly, what do you want to do with your life?
do you want to be unhappy? do you want to be happy?
I think almost everyone would answer, “I want to be happy.”
Do you know that in order to be happy, it is necessary to make an effort to be happy?
It’s an effort to feel happy in any situation. If you keep idling, you will end up with a life that is neither happy nor unhappy. It’s best to have neither happiness nor misfortune! do you think?
If you want to be happy, it’s good to interpret it in a way that makes you happy at all times. I have written before（ The Story of Strong Waves-1）I will introduce what I was doing. Suppose, for example, that I overheard someone speaking ill of me. I want to be angry, or rather, I am very angry in my heart, but after taking a deep breath and calming down for a moment, I think positively, “They are jealous of me.” I don’t really think so, but I think this is an exercise in positive thinking.
I can’t help but think negatively, so after thinking negatively, I converted it to positive thinking, saying, “I can think like this, isn’t it?”
It is easy for us to be unhappy. All we have to do is pour out the swearing and complaints of others without worrying about the surroundings.
But if you want to be happy, start by not complaining or complaining. Sometimes you want to say something, so think carefully about who you say it to and then spit it out.
Another recommendation is to add a habit of using the power of words. Say things like “I am safe” or “Thank you” to yourself.
I used to say things like “I’m the happiest” or “I love myself” while driving (laughs). I think I’m more positive now than I was when I started.
The habit of telling ourselves to ourselves means that our ears are listening every day. The words will remain in our hearts. And we will be able to believe those words.
I think the best way is to make it a habit.
No matter what the situation is, if you interpret it in a positive way and add the power of your words, your complaints will decrease.
Others may say, “Aren’t you stupid?” But If you really want to be happy, try positive thinking.
