hello.
In my diaries so far, I think I have talked about how even things that seem negative can be reconsidered as positive depending on how you see and perceive them.
When I started practicing thinking positively, I wondered how I could be positive so that I wouldn’t take things badly. At that time, when I said to my negative colleagues, “You can catch it like this,” they said, “That’s a convenient thing. Aren’t you stupid?”（The Story of Strong Waves-1）However, I wanted to be stronger, and I thought that positive thinking was important for that, so I continued to make a steady positive transformation, asking, “What’s wrong with optimistic thinking?” And now I am.
There is no such thing as too late in life, so if you want to use my story as an opportunity to turn your negatives into positives, please give it a try. Everything is happening just in time. And people always choose the best. It’s “always”.
I think it’s a good idea to explore how to see and perceive things in the practice of transforming positively.
There is also the method of “trying to laugh first”, but this is to direct yourself to laugh and make your brain misunderstand, “Ah, is this a happy thing?” I think this method is also possible, but depending on the person or situation, there are times when you don’t want to even make a fake smile. At times like this, you don’t have to force yourself to smile.
Isn’t it painful to force yourself to laugh when you don’t even think it’s fun? No matter how much you try to trick your brain into thinking you’re having fun, sometimes you just can’t bring yourself to smile. So, you don’t have to force yourself to laugh.
Well, from here is the main subject of today. The introduction has become longer.
You don’t have to force yourself to smile, but when you think you’re having fun, do you smile properly?
It seems that there are people in the world who cannot smile. The reason for this is that they believe that smiling doesn’t suit them or that their smiles are disgusting. In the past, there may be people who have been told by others.
Because of this, it seems that they don’t know how to create a smile in the first place. In other words, how to move facial muscles. Before that, let me first say.
Your smile is absolutely lovely!
Say this to yourself. you can smile. Some people may not be able to cry or get angry other than to laugh, but in the same way, please declare that it is okay to cry and get angry.
Once you have given yourself permission, start practicing how to move facial muscles.
It’s good to have a sample, so it’s recommended to practice by watching the smiles of your favorite idols and anime characters.
As you practice, reflect your face in the mirror. At first, you may be too embarrassed to look at your own face, but in that case, it’s a good idea to look at just your mouth.
There was a time when I was reluctant to look at my own face in the mirror, but I was able to see a part of it. So, practice smiling by looking only at your mouth, then practice smiling by looking at your eyes, and when you get used to looking in the mirror, reflect your entire face and show yourself the results of your practice. I think you can do it this way.
You can also research how to raise the corners of your mouth and how to move your eyebrows by watching TV and videos. The word “research” may sound like a big deal, but please try to laugh when you see and hear funny stories.
Let’s live a life full of smiles!
