hello everyone.
Last time, I wrote that the degree of importance to me is involved in the true intention of blurting out “I don’t have time.” When you say “I don’t have time” “What I am doing now is more important than what is being proposed. “Let’s paraphrase it like this. Then you will find yourself thinking, “Is this really true?” so, I suggested that we try to find a “reason to do that.” This time, I would like to write about “what is important to you”.
The trick to finding a reason to do something is related to its importance to you. If the importance ranks first, people will act immediately.
This “importance” is important to you. It may not matter so much to others, but it matters to you.
For example, as I wrote last time, when I’m sick. If I was told that I only had half a year left to live, I would want to do something to fix it! ! Isn’t it going to take action with.
As another example, in order to find a good lover, you think, “First of all, you should improve your taste in clothes!” Anyway, it’s what you think “this is important”.
The only way to find out why you do something is to ask yourself first. If you don’t think about it, you may find yourself on the edge of a precipice, such as when you’re told you don’t have much time left to live, or when your company starts restructuring.
It would be very painful if you realized that “this is bad” after reaching the edge of the cliff, so I want you to realize it as soon as possible.
For that reason, it is to take time to think about yourself from early on and stare at yourself. While saying “I don’t have time”, it will be a situation of “no way!”
As a premise, “we have time”. Let’s find out what we can do before we stand on the edge of a cliff. First, turn off your cell phone, look back on your history, and think about what kind of life you want to walk from now on.
If you say, “I don’t understand such a grand thing,” first think about what you don’t want to do, and then do the opposite. The opposite of what you don’t want to do is what you want to do.
Don’t think too much about it, just write it down on paper as it comes to mind.
What kind of future do you want? So, what should you do now? What you should do is probably important to you.
